Wednesday 22nd Nov

I got up and my son also woke up so we went to the bathroom and I washed shaved, did my hair. I then took my son downstairs and ironed my clothes for work. I then sorted my son's breakfast out and left for work after going upstairs to my sleeping gf and giving her a kiss, I then gave my son a kiss and a cuddle and said bye.

Then spent the next 8/9 hours at work just doing the usual.

I get home about half 5 and the gf is lying on the sofa and my son was hiding behind a pillow, hiding from me. I then turn around to go and sort out my football kit when all of a sudden then is a screaming match in the front room between my son and gf. So I walk in to try and calm things down when I get abuse from her telling me what a pain he has been all day and hasn't been doing what he has been told to do etc, so I listen, but in my head i am thinking "well there is plenty of washing up to be done, instead of sitting on your arse all day (except when you worked for two hours this morning) you could have left him to do what he wanted to do and got on with some housework, OK I hate doing it to but it would give you two some breathing space. You know when your on the computer he will want to play it, why not wait till he is in bed to do it."

So anyway she decides that she needs a break from him and basically is wanting me to take him away, so I get him dressed and forget about football and me and my son leave the house, I am not 10 steps away when I get a text saying bring him back, which I ignore. We get to the car and I start trying to call my mum to see if she is in so I can go and see her and get some dinner etc and i know she loves it when her grandson sees her, well I get no reply and I finally get my son in to the car but he is so upset with what has happened that he doesn't want to go anywhere but see his mum. So I take my son home and my gf and him make up and I go to football.

When i get home the gf is really sorry for what has happened and tells me that they have made up and had kisses and cuddles, but all i can think of is why did this happen? Will it happen again?