Vicki Pollard

The below post is a text conversation that I had with the ex gf last night, as you may or may not know I usually play 5 a side football on a Wednesday night, from 6.30 till 7.30 then have a few beers after, well that is now coming to a stop. She has been offered two hours work on a Wednesday night between 5 and 7, the below is the conversation


got a text saying she had
"been offered the 5-7 Wednesday job can i accept"
so I replied "yeah I can't stop you"
then from her "well I don;t want you to be moody with me"
so I replied again "it's up to you at the end of the day, I don't have a say in your life"
she then replied "Oh great so you are already in a mood! why is your football more important than me working"
so me gain "I'm not moody, just saying its up to you"
then she replied "Look im gonna work, if you don't like it fuck off"
so I text back "then why bother asking me"
Her response "I was looking for some support"

Ok i might be able to get to a couple of games a month but only if her mum isn't working but I don't feel that this is right, so I might see if I can go to the Sunday night one instead now, trouble with that, is trying to get motivated to leave the house once all settled.

Trouble with the above conversation is that we had a similar one on Monday night when we went to the cinema, which was her idea but i ended up paying (still not worked that one out). On the way she asked if I would be annoyed if she took the position so I answered honestly and said yes, the rest of the journey and during and after the film were very quiet.

I have been emailing my mum and she can tell that I am down and she asked what was wrong so told her that I am thinking of moving out, she came back with the questions about my son and would I be ok with it, so told her yes and after working it out, I will probably have him over about 4 nights a week. It would be Tuesday nights (when she works) and probably Friday Saturday and Sunday nights to (as well as during the day) meaning Monday and Wednesday mornings I could take him to school. So I am going to start looking on line and hopefully find something and hope that they will except someone that is bankrupt.

Hope all is well out in blogland, take it easy