I have started phase one of my plan.
As you are aware me and the gf have/had problems and to me and also to you things don't look like they will resolve themselves, so I have a sort of plan mapped in my head. I had been planning ages ago to speak to my mum to see if she could lend me some money for if/when i move out and I had written a draft email to send which sat in my drafts for a couple of months. After last week and things getting heated between us again I knew I had to start making steps in case the inevitable happens. I looked at the email and re wrote it Monday so it made more sense, I then left it in my drafts hoping that I wouldn't have to send it, but Monday night when I got in, the gf was cooking dinner and as I was starving I picked up a chicken ball from the nights before takeaway and she had a go at me for it like I was a kid, so when I got in to the office yesterday I sent the email to my mum, knowing that times are hard, expecting it to say that things were tight their end, but she emailed me back and has said yes.
I now will have a deposit for a new flat/house to rent and also for some white goods/furniture and also my mum will be acting as guarantor for me, as with my credit record shot due to the bankruptcy I know this will be the only way for me to get a place. This isn't the road I wanted to go down but unless things pick up, which I can't see happening, I need to get my life back.
I'm not sure what phase two of my plan is yet but have a rough idea.
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Planning
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4 comments:
I think you've done the right thing making this plan. It's great that your mum can help you. Amazing how family can come through during times of break ups.
You'll be so much happier once you've done it...believe me.
Your on the right track and getting closer to accepting what you now know is inevitable, I wish you all the luck in the world and like Trix says I am also sure you will be a lot happier....(((hugs))) xx
Sounds like you're living a bit of a nightmare, I hope the plan comes through for you, sounds like you have little choice :( It'll be for the best in the end, I've found I'd rather be alone than in something miserable x
Thakn you all for your support. I know its going to be hard for me when I do actually make the final step, but with support from here and my family I should be fine.
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