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Thursday, November 16, 2006

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2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi...I thought I'd pop over and say thanks for commenting on my blog :)

I've read quite a few of your entries regarding your gf and the sex situation. This is such a tricky one.

I think the first thing you need to establish is whether she has a hormonal problem, because if she has, it's easily rectified. A quick trip to the Dr for a blood test will sort that out.

If it's not that, then is she happy in your relationship? Is she tired? Overworked? Do you still take time to 'woo' her? And then, there's that awful question....does she still fancy you?

The only way you're going to get these questions answered is to talk to her. At the end of the day, if she's just not interested any more (but wants to be with you,) you need to make a decision. I think it's unfair of her to expect a guy of your age to go without sex for the rest of your life. And if you're not getting it at home?

God...I don't envy you. Wishing you lots of luck though. x

IT Barman said...

Hi Miss Understood, thanks for popping in. I have tried to sit down and dicuss it with her and she has said give it time etc, so I decided what about going to Relate, but she says she can't talk to people they don't help. A while back she used to see someone but I am not sure exactly why. I keep thinking that I should just but my thoughts down on an email/letter and then see what happens then.