Time Ladies and gentlemen

How do you know its time to move on and find someone else.

I live with my ex in the same house but different rooms(yes it does feel strange) would I suggest you try it, probably not as it is a hard thing to do especially if there is still emotions on both sides. It is very hard to let go and also not to try and hurt the other person. When can you move on, this i don't know but need to do something soon, I have been in contact with a friend of a friend who would like us to meet. I explained the situation to her and I can understand why she was a bit edgy about it but she would still like to meet, but am i moving on to soon.

I really would like to meet this girl as I know I need to move on with my own life now but how do I tell the ex this. Do i tell her straight out or do i move out first (not sure where i would go and i like the place I'm in now). Problem is i know that she hasn't really let go of us even though it was her choice that started the ball rolling of us splitting up, (she mentioned it first that's all, the relationship or lack of is what made her decide and she was right to do so) and how do i know this well.

Last week i went to play football as normal but instead of making my way home I ended up in the pub with a friend for a few beers and when they were finished it was closing time, so I walk home and get in, make my way to my room and notice a few of my games were on the floor, my first thought was that my son had been in and playing on the xbox, how wrong was I, when i turned round there were games and DVDs everywhere. She had come in to my room and chuck my DVDs, games, and clothes all over the place, all because I didn't tell her I was staying out, which seeing as she is not my mum, partner or keeper I had to do. So we ended up having a blazing row and I have to admit it was the first time i have ever wanted to lash out, I didn't though, but we were both effing and geffing around the house and i can't remember if my son woke up because of this or is she woke him up but as i was standing there she told him that Daddy won't be living here soon and it will just be mummy and you. I wanted to through her out of the house there and then for that, she had no right. Once that was over with though i went up to bed, when i woke in the morning I had a text from her telling me she was sorry and I made sure she apologised to my son to.