It nevr Rains it Pours

Well since my last post, i'm not really sure what has been going on.

during the week after the text, I have tried to do my own stuff when I've been in the house, but having dinner etc with my son, trouble is I think the gf/exgf has forgotten about the test conversation we have, as she is wanting to try and do couple things. Friday and Saturday night we had bit of a movie fest and watched about 4/5 films over the weekend but sitting on separate sofas. Saturday during the day we went out with my son as it was the Harbour festival and we also went with her mum and step dad, so doing the family stuff.

Sunday morning I got really confused, I was going past her bedroom when she called me, I went in and she asked me to get in to bed with her, I was clothed but thought why not, she was naked and when she put her leg over me we cuddled, now I know I'm a man and can't read signals but I thought this was a signal for us to have some fun, so I run my hands all over her body and to between her legs, but she stops me and moves my hand, so I cuddle a bit more, then try again, thinking she is playing hard to get, how wrong was I, it wasn't hard to get it was impossible, she didn't want any contact that was sexual at all. Now to me, what she did, by getting me in to bed and getting me close to her and wrapping her leg round was a signal for some fun. I know that I was wrong but how many other men would have thought the same as me, or women for that matter?


When she had gone to work I took my son out for a little while and when we got home his friend came round after which I took my son swimming. When we finished we all went home and i cooked dinner for us, after which we sat down and watched Horton Hears a Hoo (well I watched some then fell asleep for awhile). I then took our son to bed and read him a story. I then did the usual and got my ironing and took it to my room to do. Whilst ironing away she came up just to say hi so I said why doesn't she stay and watch her program as I had nothing to watch now so she did.

So after finishing what I could be bothered with I started to watch the program and give her a massage as she had been working hard that day, stupid me I know but I didn't see the harm in it and carried on. She then layed on the bed and I massaged her all over, after taking her top and shorts off. When I done this she told me no playing with her hairy bits, so this was a clear signal that sex wasn't going to happen or she wasn't in the mood, but I kept massaging and also my hand kept wondering, sometimes it would get tapped away other times she let it linger, after a couple of more times like this I kept my hand there and played with her, now I like my sex to last a bit with foreplay and touching from both parties, but she lay there as I carried on, she told me to get a condom on if I wanted sex, I told her I just wanted to play for now and carried on. So whilst playing she came and I thought we would have some more fun, but no, she got in a mood and said "I told you if you wanted sex, that it had to be then" she started moaning at how we don't do things as a couple and about watching films on different sofas and she just wants to be able to cuddle without thinking I am going to try anything, I took note of this but I don't think it is going to make any difference as she still said she doesn't like sex anymore.

So thereis my rant, and yes I can see where I went wrong now and I will not be trying anything or massaging or doing couple things anymore as it is time for me to get my arse out of there.

Also forgot that I got a call from my Dad Sunday morning, he rang to tell me that his landlady wants him out as he is £300 in rent arrears and also about £450 arrears in electricity, now my dads credit is crap as he lost his previous house and probably has a number of defaults against his name, so trying to rent somewhere will be hard for him and also he has no deposit for anywhere else, he explained the situation to his landlady about his job and that as soon as his criminal record check has gone through he will be working and will be ablt to pay her, but she is exercising the one months notice on him as he had signed a 6 month tenancy but that lapsed about 4 months ago, he has asked if I have any ideas to let him now, but I have no clue where to start.