The weekend started bad

Well the weekend started bad but has got slightly better.

Friday night my g/f got in a mood with me and instead of telling me what was wrong I was supposed to read her mind and guess something was wrong and ask her what was up.

I didn't and as I was leaving the house she followed me so that she could lock the door behind me so I took it as I shouldn't bother going home after going to the pub with a friend. Then the texts started and it was all hostile so in the end I ignored them, but I did in the end send her a text telling her I am on my way home and the text back was "OK".

So I get on and the duvet is ready for me on the sofa.

Then this morning I get a call from the estate agents saying they have a viewing they want to do, so I go up stairs and get on to bed next to her so that I can give her a cuddle and things, but she pushes me away and so I get up and go back down stairs. I pop back up and get in with her again and she pushes me away once again, but at least I succeeded in getting her out of bed.

So we head out to go shopping but I end up not getting out of the car as it was only a quick visit.

We get home and after I cook some lunch we head upstairs and start having a serious chat with me telling her i don't think things are working and we should really think about going our separate ways. So we discuss why I have said this and I tell her why and she listens to what I have to say but when have finished I feel that she isn't taking it in and she then argues that things have changed and that the house work is getting done and things like that, she says that I have said that I want to go and talk to someone about our sex life but not us. That did make me sit up and listen as she is right, I should have suggested that as there is more to a relationship than just sex. She asks why do i always say its over and I tell her its because its easier that way, it saves all the grief, I guess in my own way it is just me taking the shortcut.

So we ended up talking about it all and I do feel somethings have been lifted I know we still have a way to go but I am going to stick at it and try and make this work for all the right reasons and also to try and get the sex drive back up, any tips would be great (for all of it not just the sex drive).

On another note i had a quick message from the doc saying she is visiting in Sept/Oct and would I like to meet, I told her yes. I am guessing she will be with her man so also can't wait to meet him to. It will be good to have a proper conversation with words instead of text.