To be more of a family

My gf always picks the wrong times to talk to me, it is always when I have got in to bed and am ready to sleep and my brain is on a wind down.

Last night she came up as i went up early so I could shill a little and read my book. So she comes up and say I want us to be more of a family and do things together.

This is what the conversation sort of went.

gf "I want us to be more of a family and do things"
me "ok"
gf "is that it"
me"yes, what else do you want me to say?"
gf "well what are you going to do about it?"
me "I will have a think about it"
gf "Why don;t you listen to me, who do you expect us to go to someone when you won't even talk to me"
me "I don't know but I don't have anything to say right now"

Another part of the conversation

gf "I want us to go on a family holiday"
me "ok but i will have to see what funds are like, are you going to help pay"
gf "why should i help you work, you buy yourself all these things you don't need for the computer, music you download you won't listen to"
me ""
gf "and why is it when i want to go out a friday or saturday night you want to go out the other night, why can't you just stay in with your son"
me "fine"
gf "you are always out, wednesday you play football and are getting back later and later, your out tomorrow night all night and not coming back"

Which is true but only because it makes more sense for me to stay at a friends house instead of going home to bed and driving back to work when i wake up.

gf "so what have you got to say, what are you thinking?"
me" nothing, i haven't got anything to say

I ended up telling her I would think about it and went to sleep

And that was that.