Yesterday we took my son with the gf's family to a local castle to us where we spent about 6 hours looking around.
We then get home have dinner and chill out a little bit, well the gf did, I was busy doing the bathroom and folding clothes.
So when we finally get to bed we are both tossing and turning, we are tired but just can't get comfortable, so I suggest to the gf that I give her a massage which I do and then things progress a bit and we start having sex but she then goes all funny on me (this is after she has had an orgasm) and tells me to leave her alone so I leave and take a duvet with me and sleep downstairs.
Now to me this is not right, something has to be wrong, no i am no doctor or therapist but there must be something going on in her head.
What confuses me is that on Saturday when she got home she started saying things like i miss first dates and things, not knowing if your going to be having sex at the end of it and things, now ok those are things you can miss but if she can't have sex with me what will happen when she is with other guys, it makes me think that it is me and only me she doesn't want to be with.
Tuesday, April 10, 2007
Head completely All over the place
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2 comments:
It sounds to me Barman, like your girlfriend has issues she needs to sort out. Don't blame yourself.
Have you ever thought, and I know this might sound crazy, but maybe get someone to have your son for an evening without telling the g/f, then when she gets in invite her on a date. Take her to the pictures, have a meal, go bowling, whatever you like to do together, but treat it as a date.
Go to more effort than usual when getting ready. You know, 110% effort in the 'getting ready for a first date' syndrome... an hour in the bathroom, another to decide what to wear etc.. open the door for her, pretend like you are just getting to know each other again... I think you see what I mean.
Maybe all that she is missing is the 'being made to feel special' that a young, blooming relationship provides. Daily grind can certaingly give us all a hefty reality check, sometimes it is nice to take a step back and re-evaluate.
Good luck honey.
Hugs.x
PS - If that doesnt work, I still have my case packed, as you are pretty much on my doorstep anyway.... lolol.
I have sent her a text to find out what last night was about but no reply. Thanks for the comments and I think I will give something ago this weekend, hopefully one of her brothers can babysit for us. So fingers crossed it will be the start of good things, if not I'm packing my bags to sunny france :)
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