I think the fat lady has sung (well the gf)

Todays text messages

gf "Im in a mood now, there is a program called hitlers secret bunkers on channel 5, guess when"
"Tonight about 9 "
"Tonite at 8. Its not fair "
"We can do something tonight to take your mind off it "
"Sod off "
"I just thought it might be a way for you to relax "
"Just sod off "
"Stop being up tight "
"Im not "
"Then what are you being, hard to get? X "
"Just leave me alone "
"Ok "
"Look its over between us. You can carry on living here or find somewhere else its up to you "
"Why?"
"Because i still cant give you what you want "
"But what is stopping you? "
"I just dont want it "
"Well we can't say we haven't tried "


So looks like I am going to need to start looking for a new place to live as I don't think we can live together like we tried before as it just didn't work that well.