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Born in 1977, single and living on my own. I have a son who is my world.

Tuesday, July 08, 2008

What a Cracker

What a great weekend I had.

I managed to go to the cinema twice this weekend and see two great films, Wanted and Kung Fu Panda. I saw wanted with a friend and wanted to do something different than just get drunk, also we both had to be up early the next day. It is a great film if you like action and it also had a bit of a story line, there were a couple of twists to. Kung Fu Panda was very funny and I took my son and his uncle to see it, this was my sons first cinema experience and I was a little nervous as to how he would be, luckily the film was only an hour and a half long, so he sat through about an hour and fifteen mins before getting a bit fidgety, but I told him it wasn't long to the end and he just wiggled a bit till it finished. He did have a toilet break half way through so I think this helped. My son thoroughly enjoyed it as did I, they showed some trailers for other kids films and he looked like he would like to see them to, which as he was so good I did say I would take him, as long as they aren't longer than an hour and a half.

My sons swimming is coming on a lot better and the gf asked to book another lesson and the instructor said don't bother wasting your money, he is going great and just needs to build his arm strength up, so I now know what I need to do when I take him for his usual Sunday swim.

Me and the gf seemed to get on ok over the weekend, I do admit snapping at her a few times though as everytime she spoke it seemed she was just whinging or it might be that was all I could hear, this also seemed to happen over the past week to, but I blame myself for this. I blame myself as when my mum was down she said that all the gf does is whinge so I think this is why I picked up on it more than usual, but I have turn the whinge filters on now and just listen to when she is actually saying something.

I went against Raes advice and did loan my dad the full £200, stupid I know, but he shouldn't fail the third time and as long as he doesn't, he should be earning around £400 a week take home, which will help him in paying me back and me replenishing my stag and festival pot and also start repaying what he owes me. If I forget about the money from the house for the moment he owes me £780 which will be great to put £500 in to the pot and the rest in to the bank, where I can then arrange to get my car serviced.

I have been holding back with asking the gf about sex but instead been sending texts saying, "why don't we spend some time in bed together tonight, instead of her moaning that all I want is sex she has been polite and said, not tonight or we will see. So I think this way is working slightly better, even though I am still not getting any.

2 comments:

Dark Side said...

I am sure everything will be ok with the money and you get your fund back in time.

As for the sex thing, have you tried talking to her to see why she doesn't want if as often as you, there is nothing worse then feeling under pressure even when you aren't really....perception and all that!..x

IT Barman said...

I have tried quite a few times in talking to her about it, but it normally ends up in an argument, I have asked about going to RELATE and things, but she says she don't think they can help. She tells me she has just gone off sex, not sure there is anythingI can do.