Can you Relate?

So I have got myself on the waiting list for RELATE, hopefully it won't be to far in the distance. I told the gf about it and she told me that if i go then it is over between us, i'm not sure how serious she means this but if thats the case then at least RELATE will be able to help me with the moving on process. I am hoping that it is just taking time for the idea of relate to sink in to the gf and its just a knee jerk reaction on her part.
I guess the proof will be in the pudding when relate send or leave a message on the phone, as if the gf asks about it I will tell her, I have had enough of her trying to dicate what we can and can't do in the relationship. Last week was a so so week and nothing much really happened, during the week I had the usual talk about the lack of sex and this went down like a lead balloon thens when I booked relate and when I told her about it she went off on one saying we don't need it, I won't go, if you go its over, so I left that conversation as it was.

Friday I had to take my son to school as the gf was not really with it as she was having problems with her wisdom tooth coming through and had kept her up most of the night, it also made her cheek swell so she looked like a gerbil. Once I had dropped him off i was coming through town when i had to stop at a zebra crossing, as I did this though, someone went in to the back of my car, there was no real damage to my bumber, being an older BMW and being built like a brick shit house, but his, a rover, seems to do quite some damage to his front bumper. I took my car to the garage after work just to make sure nothing major had bene broken and they gave it the all clear.

Saturday was a bit of a lazy day, i got up and did my washing and got my son breakfast, we then played out oin the garden for a while and he heard his friend out in his garden, so off he went to play with him and bag himself a scooter for £5, he has wanted one for ages and his friend had to and his dad asked if my son would like it, my son started nodding like the churchill dog, so I said yes, he was just going to give it to us, but i asked how much and he said give me a fiver. I told my son that he has to pay for it and i would get the money from his piggy bank, his reply "yeah, sure". after playing out the front for a while as we had had a power cut the three boys went and played the wii for a while, my sons friend got upset though when his dad beat him at a game and really started bawling his eyes out, so his dad took him off and we left and the gf and I took my son to the park to try out his scooter and ride his bike.

Sunday was a slow begining and just cleaning the house as we were having the gf's brothers gf's daughter over as they had gone away for the weekend. The girls turned up about half 11 so they played in the garden for a while, we then took them out the front so that they could ride the bike, scooter and ther electric quad bike. Once they got board and i was tired after chasing them and making sure they were staying on the path we made them lunch which went down well for my son and the youngest (2yrs I think), the third, same age as my son, was complaining of tummy ache so went and sat in the front room for a while. The oldest girl and my son then played for a while, whilst the youngest was so tired that she just couldn't get comfortable, we eventually got her to sleep in my sons chair, under her jacket, blanket and her teddies, she was sound alseep and slept for about 2 and ahalf hours. Her mum got to ours about 5ish with her bf whilst we were eating our dinner, so they stayed for a cuppa, but the girls were to excited to eat now that mummy was back. When they left I made my son sit on the sofa without talking, made the gf sit down and chilled for 5 mins, I now know why 1 child is enough, it was great having them, but the peace when they left was so much better.
after we had tidied up, it was time for my son to go to bed, he had a story read to him on the sofa and passed out quite quickley. Once i had put him to bed I went upstairs and did my ironing which I had put off for about 2 weeks and also put a film on. Once all done i went downstairs to see the gf and as it was getting late and we were both tired we went to bed, i started looking for a book to read as I wasn't quite ready to go to bed when she leans over me to help, as she does this I gently rub her shoulders and lets say that I was no longer going to read and carried on massaging her shoulder and neck for her I then move my hands down to her legs but as she wasn't in the right position, she lies down and i get under the covers to finish the job, whilst down there, I decide that maybe she is up for some extra fun and luckily I was right and Sunday night we made love, so maybe things are changing, slowly.