Woman Speak

I just don't get why women can't just tell you something instead of dropping hints or you having to guess what they mean.



I had a good birthday weekend, Friday night the inlaws came round and we had takeaway and a session on the Wii, when they left me and the gf stayed up and watched some telly, we then headed to bed, on the way up the gf asked if I wanted to sleep in her bed, I said no don't worry as my son will proberbly get in as he hasn't been feeling 100% and that my snoring (which after a drink can be quite bad, so I have been told) might keep her awake. So we went to our own rooms and went to bed, well I lay down in bed and cried myself to sleep, I'm not sure why, but I thinkI was feeling unloved as I had had no affection from the gf, physically and only a bit mentally and just before I went to sleep I sent a shitty text "Thanks for not trying to have any sexual contact with me".

When I woke the next morning I didn't think much off it and carried on with stuff and washing up from the night before whilst the gf and my son were still alseep. My son woke and I sorted his breakfast out for him and we sat down together and talked about what we would do. When the gf got up things were normal and I took her to work and me and my son went swimming for an hour then for lunch in the cafe at the sports centre, the gf joined us as she didn't have any work to do. When I got home I told my son he could go and play with his friend down the road and I just faffed around the house being pretty bored, we then picked the gf up at half 3, we sat down and had a cup of tea, where she tells me that she got my message when she was at work and that when she asked me "Are you sleeping in my bed tonight" it wasd a hint that we were going ot have sex, normally when she says this, it is to just sleep in the same bed, so no wonder I had no clue that is what she meant. We then got ready to go out for the evening and dropped my son off at his nans and the evening began.



We met our friends at 7 and started catching up with the goss and whats been happening, more friends joined later and there was about 10 of us in total, all chatting and drinking, we then had to go to the next bar, we were supposed to be there for 9 and it was already half 9, so a group of them headed off to the pub inc the gf as she was to cold to walk and got a lift with a friend, whilst four of us went to the bar round the corner to break the walk up a bit. Once we finished our beer there we met up with the rest of the group and had a few more drinks. The oub we were at was closing for the evening so we headed back to pub number two but the gf was hungry, so we stopped of at the kebab house for a burger, when she asked me to pay I said only if you show me your boobies, this didn't work and I should have stopped there, but no, me and my fondness for boobies got me in to more trouble as i tried to pay for a friends burger, if she would let me see hers, alas it was a no and she paid for it herself, this was a bit of a downfall for me for the rest of the evening as the gf now wasn't happy with me and when we got home, no nookie again.



Sunday I dragged my sorry arse ouf of bed and wandered to the local shop,

1 to freshen my head up,

2 to have a smoke

3 to make up for last night.



So I get back and the gf is still asleep so I go and watch a film upstairs, she surfaces about 10ish just as our son is being dropped off. I then make myself a bacon sandwich and and go and play outside with my son. we ended up going out for some of the day with the gf's brother and his partner and her two daughters, we went and had chips by the canal and a play about with the kids which they loved. I cooked dinner for all of us and we then relaxed watching robots to try and get my son to sleep but he loves the film to much so afterwards I took him to bed and tucked him in. Me and the gf then cuddled up on the sofa for a bit, where I gave her a back and should massage.

Today I have also added myself to the relate waiting list, when on the phone I was asked if I would be bringing my partner, I said, hopefully.