Relating

got in Friday after work and the gf tells me there is a message from relate on the answer phone, great I say, then she says "well your not going are you?", I wasn't sure what I was supposed to say, so told her I would be thinking about it.
Over the weekend as the weather was crap we didn't really do much, we had a lazy morning Saturday, with the gf getting up later than us as she had bene out for a couple of drinks the night before. Once dressed I took my son swimming as she went and talked to her friend at work about a youth club my gf is working on. after swimming we went home and as we were stuffed from having a late lunch we only had a snack for dinner, we then sat down and watched merlin. I am still not sure if I like this programme yet, but I think it is growing on me, once finished we got a supply of snacks and drink and all settled down to watch Indiana Jones and the crystal Skull, well my son fell alseep watching it as he was so tired and when it was finished I was very glad, it wasn't what I was expecting and was just rubbish, why did lucas have to go and do that to a great franchise, Jones is all about arctifacts and treasure hunting, not bloody aliens, there were more Aliens in this than there was in the X-files film I saw at the cinema. Sunday was another lazy morning and I did the washing up and then helped my son with his letters and wrods that he got from school, butwith him being tired, he got bored quite quickly.
We went to the gf's brothers gfs for sunday lunch which made a nice change to what we normally do and we had roast lamb and all the trimmings, which is what I normally leave behind as I only really eat the meat, potatoes and yourkshire pud's, I am a fusser eater, afterwards whilst the kids were playing with each other we had a game of scrabble wher eI managed to come thrid, which out of four people I didn't think was to bad ;o)
this morning I woke and decided that I would go to the relate meeting and as I had to ring by ten I text the gf to see if she would be coming, the answer was no no and again no. After some texts back and forth I think she will be ending the relationship as this is what she has threatend again today, no matter as I am still going to go and at least I will get some help even if it is just for myself.
I have no idea what to expect from this session and am not sure what I want to get from it and this morning I was trying to guess what the questions might be and then trying to answer them, I decided this was the wrong way to go and besides that is what I am paying them to do. I have about 2 hours at home before the appointment so depending on how it goes ther eI guess will help me determine what questions I might want to ask.

Thanks for putting up with my little burble of words above and I hope they made sense, see you on the flip side