But got a bit better by mid morning today, the gf phoned and asked me what was up, so all moody and I told her it was over, she then asked why and I told her i don't know but i just can't cope with this. Then I ask her what was wrong and she tells me the reason she stopped the other night and has been moody if because she thought i wanted/was sleeping with other women. The reason she thought this was because she had been open with me about snogging other guys I told her that as long as she was honest with me I think i could handle her sleeping with another man (only a a one night basis), yes looking back at that now, ok, I think I wouldn't have coped.
Anyway because of this she thought that is what I wanted to do, which I told her i didn't and i only said she could because that is what I thought she wanted.
So we have sort of made up.
Not sure if i have mentioned but we have our house up on the market at the moment, so i get a call form the estate agents just before 1 asking if they can do a viewing tomorrow at 1 which I say is fine and I text the gf to let her know. She then phones me up and has a go at me as it means she has now got to tidy the house again, which she had done yesterday and it surely can't be in that bad of a mess already, so she tells me our son has got all his toys out. I laugh and make matters worse, now she moans when no one comes round to look and moans when people do, I really can't make her out. I wouldn't mind her bitching about it if she worked all day, I'm not saying being a housewife isn't hard work but isn't that what your supposed to do if your a housewife. (Sorry for the chauvinistic comment)
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
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IT, I don't think it is chauvinism if the woman is at home all day and not out working. If she doesn't work then she should take the responsibility for the housework and family chores. That's not to say that they should be used as a personal slave, just that they should be the one to make sure the house is generally clean and tidy.
I do have a problem with guys that think their gf/wives should do all of the home chores on top of working full time though, now that is chauvinism.
Glad you two have sorted out your recent difficulties, talking is the best fixative... everytime.
Hi there
Just stumbled on your blog from Ali's, had a mooch through, all very interesting.
By the way, I went to see Metallica a few years ago at Milton Keynes Bowl. They organised something called Metallica's Big Day Out. Awesome!
Hi Ali
I completely agree with the housework comment, I do helpout when I can so not everything is left to her.
Hi Mike
Welcome, I saw metallica back in 96 in Earls court, it was an excellant night.
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