Well as I am no good at talking face to face when it comes to somethings I have emailed the gf about what she suggested at the weekend.
Here it is
Hey sexy how's you?
I have been trying to get my head around what you said at the weekend and I would love to be able to talk to you face to face about this but i can't.
So you have said I am allowed to sleep with other women, why have you said this, i have loads of thoughts going around my head about it and here are some.
1. Because you don't enjoy sex anymore and don't think I should go without?
2. You think you have to do this because you kissed someone at the weekend?
3. You want to kiss people in the future?
4. You want to be able to sleep with other people?
5. Its a test and if I did sleep with someone else then its all over between us?
I love you loads and I don't want anything to come between us so please try and reply to this message without getting stressed or anything please.
Love you loads and loads
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Update
I didn't get a reply email but we did have a quick chat in bed (why is it women think that bed is the place for talking and talking and talking, i go to bed to sleep)
She said that the reason she told me I could sleep with other women was because when she kissed this guy on Saturday there was no feeling in it and that it was just a kiss so why couldn't it be the same with me if I slept with another woman, I sort of looked puzzled but got her drift. She then asked me did I want to sleep with other women so I told her no, she said have you been thinking about it, which I said no, she then asked if i did think about it would i tell her, which i said yes.
Here it is
Hey sexy how's you?
I have been trying to get my head around what you said at the weekend and I would love to be able to talk to you face to face about this but i can't.
So you have said I am allowed to sleep with other women, why have you said this, i have loads of thoughts going around my head about it and here are some.
1. Because you don't enjoy sex anymore and don't think I should go without?
2. You think you have to do this because you kissed someone at the weekend?
3. You want to kiss people in the future?
4. You want to be able to sleep with other people?
5. Its a test and if I did sleep with someone else then its all over between us?
I love you loads and I don't want anything to come between us so please try and reply to this message without getting stressed or anything please.
Love you loads and loads
************************************************************************************
Update
I didn't get a reply email but we did have a quick chat in bed (why is it women think that bed is the place for talking and talking and talking, i go to bed to sleep)
She said that the reason she told me I could sleep with other women was because when she kissed this guy on Saturday there was no feeling in it and that it was just a kiss so why couldn't it be the same with me if I slept with another woman, I sort of looked puzzled but got her drift. She then asked me did I want to sleep with other women so I told her no, she said have you been thinking about it, which I said no, she then asked if i did think about it would i tell her, which i said yes.
I did say to her though that if this was going to happen that I would have a problem as there is no way I would bring them home and I can see them wanting them to take me back to their place and also that I cam no good at puling she would have to bring them home for me, which she said no.

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